Locked in the Dock: Men and the Law

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By ithabise

The prosecutor probed deeper into the prospective jurors' lives. “Do any of you have family members who have been tried in the legal system, without being specific?”

One by one, people spoke up. “I have a son who…” “My son was…” "My son…son…son." Perhaps six or seven referenced a son who had run head-first into the law. “How do you feel about how the person was treated?” “Do you think it makes you unable to render a fair and impartial decision as a juror today?” Most held no grudges and felt themselves capable of serving.

One black gentleman explained that his ordeal had caused him to look negatively toward the legal system, yet he felt he could serve.

Another white lady explained her total distrust of “the system” and didn’t feel capable of serving. The young prosecutor honed in. “I don’t understand, Ms. ____. You are the system here.” I could tell the 60-ish lady was embarrassed by the attention, and I was embarrassed for her. She looked like a deer in headlights. I also wondered if she was simply trying to weasle her way out. Judge Milam questioned her response and reinforced her civic duty. In the end, regardless of her feelings about the system, she served that day.

But don’t daughter’s cause trouble , I wondered.

That answer sat a few feet in front of me: the defendant, a young woman, was there because she allegedly assaulted an officer. Yet I have never been able to shake from my mind all the sons—somewhere in the world that day managing their various affairs—who showed up in that courtroom, as if always a short-term memory of Justice. I left with Mr. Mulrooney’s words in The Road to Perdition ringing in my ears, words I hate: “Sons are put on this earth to trouble their fathers.”

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ithabise Hub Author 7 months ago

(Oops! Men act before reasoning...you get the point.)

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ithabise Hub Author 7 months ago

You said it: Men think without reasoning. That's the problem. We're hot-headed! And I appreciate your honesty about yourself.

BB23LifesAStage 7 months ago

This hits home for me. A people in my life never seemed to get away from illegal activity. Matter of fact...a lot of males I know. There is massive pressure on men and most of the time (not meaning to sound sexist, condescending or anything) men act on initial, present feelings before considering future consequences. Maybe that's part of the reason there are so many "sons" in jail today...?

On the other hand...women have their share of getting trouble and breaking the law. Been there done that. Although, my offenses haven't been as severe they still served a lesson and I regret maybe 90% of it.

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ithabise Hub Author 7 months ago

And I wonder why we men don't stop and think before we act. Legal trouble will follow us the rest of our lives...and for what? It is something we'll always look back on with regret.

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Bail Up ! 7 months ago

I believe this to be true. Men in our society because of social or peer presssures seem to have more trouble with the law. Almost as if it is a right of passage. Not that women don't have legal troubles as well but sometimes just their demeanor gets them off the hook before the system gets to them.

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